Need advice from females the most, men 2 about the way my baby mother is feeling,?

basically me and her decided to have a child she was 22 at the time and i was 23, no we werent married, but we loved eachother very much, durin the preg. she was crzy which made me crzy because i didnt know what she was experiencing, i was somewhat i guess not giving her air to breathe because i was just helping and maybe to much so she left me, along with there was trust issues she was talking not dating her ex which may me uncomfortable, anyways a month after the preg, we got back together for 2 weeks, then she said it was to much she wasnt ready where really she was interested into another guy, So me and her were in relationships with diff people, now i left the girl was seeing and she did to. we started communicating again after the fact i took her to court for joint custody my name on the birth certificate and last name rights. I pay child support by the way. Anyways now i told her i miss hangingout with her and she agree and said she didnt want to get mix up that she wants more than a friendship, I told her i didnt want anything rite now i was just focusing on me and my son. So now things are good, she got my mom a bday card where them 2 didnt get along at all, she took me out to lunch. My question is to females, what do you think this means. I have never seen a baby mother hanging out taking baby daddys to lunch and all. I just want to know from a female what she is feeling and thinking. Does she want something with me, btw her family and friends love me. Let me know what you think, your advice is helpful